Uncontested Divorce and Mediation: What are the Benefits?

We’re used to seeing divorce portrayed on television and in movies as a high-conflict affair. That might work in drama, but it doesn’t necessarily work in real life. There is more than one way to end a marriage. One of those ways makes for bad television but is great for your peace of mind, finances, and timetable. Yes, you can finalize your divorce faster with an uncontested divorce and a mediator can help you get there. In this article, the Philadelphia divorce lawyers at the Law Offices of Lauren H. Kane will discuss divorce mediation and uncontested divorces and why this method, when appropriate, yields desirable results for most families.

What is divorce mediation? 

Divorce mediation is a voluntary process in which a neutral third party (the mediator) helps the couple negotiate the terms of their divorce. The mediator does not act as an advocate for either party. They cannot give legal advice. Instead, their role is to facilitate an agreement between the parties, so that they can go their separate ways.

When we talk about mediation, we generally think about it in terms of litigation. Litigation is what you have in a traditional divorce case. During a litigated divorce, a judge renders all decisions related to the division of the marital estate, alimony, child custody, and child support. When you mediate a divorce, you and your spouse decide these matters together with the help of a mediator.

Benefits of mediation in a Pennsylvania divorce 

Traditional litigation is an adversarial process. Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution that allows the parties to a divorce to come together to make decisions on their own behalf instead of having a judge make these decisions for them. Some of the benefits of mediation include:

• Reduced conflict – The mediator’s role is to facilitate an agreement between the parties. Generally, they help couples maintain an amicable discourse throughout the process.

• Costing less money – Successfully mediated uncontested divorces tend to cost significantly less than those that are litigated in front of a judge. You have reduced legal fees and court fees, making this ideal for couples who don’t want to go bankrupt during their divorce.

• Taking less time – Mediation often results in a faster divorce than litigation. During litigation, you will have to file motions, wait for the court to rule on the motion, and then, the judge renders a final decision.

• Confidentiality – Court proceedings are a matter of public record, meaning anyone can access them. Mediation is a confidential process and protects the couple’s personal matters from public eyes.

• Maintaining control of the outcome – In a litigated divorce, the judge renders all final decisions. A successful mediation allows the couple to control the outcome, create customized solutions, and keep the judge out of the process.

Talk to a Philadelphia, PA Divorce Lawyer Today 

The Law Offices of Lauren H. Kane represent the interests of those seeking a skilled divorce mediator in Philadelphia. Call our Philadelphia family lawyers today to schedule an appointment, and we can begin discussing your next steps right away.